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Experiencing Grief as a Blessing

Question:  I heard you say that grief can actually be a blessing. I just don't get this at all. Can you please explain?

Divine Mother:  I want you to know that loss can be a freedom that breaks you through all that has held you in bondage. Loss is really a gain. I know loss. I know the waves of grief that well up from losing something you care deeply for, something that has been the foundation of your life. I know the grief. The grief only becomes pain when you hold it in and don’t express its power. Then through the expression it becomes your energy for breakthroughs beyond any you have ever known. The power of grief is also a delicate equilibrium because again the victim/small mind can hang on and punish oneself with it…stabbing oneself again and again with the grief. 

If you can allow the pure grief, the waves of energy to resonate through your body and vibrational field you will experience a new consciousness. Most people do not do this. They are ashamed, afraid, stuck and so the grief gets lodged in their systems and causes physical pain, illness and more loss.

You must be very centered in your heart to receive the blessings of grief expressed, and I will hold you. Come to me. I will hold you and keep you clear so that the grief can be a blessing, an awakening and grace this earth. For as a human being you will experience grief. It is part of the human makeup. It is a blessing, an expansion of your heart. Don’t avoid it. You will move through it and this planet will be a better place for your honest experience of it.

Invoking Divine Beings and Ascended Masters

Question:   I have a question about invoking the Divine Beings, especially invoking the Ascended Masters. If I am sitting here and someone else is miles away and we are all invoking a Divine Master, is the Divine Master equally with everyone?

Divine Mother:   The Master is with everyone equally. The intention of the one involved is important. We are even with those who never invoke us. We are looking for a crack in the door.

It depends on the focused attention of the person. Focused attention on us is more effective than vague attention. If you are thinking of something else when you ask for me, you haven't received as much as you could receive. If you open the window more, you can embrace me more. If you are focused and call on the name and then look for the presence, there is a focus and an engagement in the focus. It is more about you than about me. It is all about you and your intention and attention, your heart, your love.

Create exactly what you want

Question:   You said that we are creators and that we can create exactly what we want. I have only had this experience a few times in my life. Can you elaborate more on what we need to do to become more capable of creating exactly what we want?

Divine Mother:   I am Divine Mother. I come in the name of the Wholeness of all that is. I am your second greatest resource. The Infinite Wholeness is your first greatest resource. However, I am here to remind you of the first greatest resource. I am here not only to remind you, but to push you into it again and again and again. I am like the mischievous child who is pushing you off the diving board into the ocean of Wholeness. I love you. I want you to know about this vast, Infinite Wholeness. I am going to teach you how to play in it. Playing in it means create, create, create, and create skillfully, intelligently, particularly, exactly what you want.

The skill in your attempts to create has everything to do with trust in the Infinite. Trust means letting go, letting go of your small idea and allowing the Infinite idea to manifest through your endeavors. When you let go of this small idea, you give permission for the greatest ally in your existence to support you, to take your small idea and run with it.

You have wonderful ideas. You have the ability to move your physical form through this physical world. You have thoughts that guide you as you move this physical form through this physical world. Your thoughts need to be refined, they need to become so subtle, so pure, that the instant the thought is had, a manifestation of that thought occurs. Pure thoughts do this. By pure I mean untainted by fear. Fear has many ramifications. Fear can be the fear of many different things -- fear of not being good enough, fear of not being worthy, fear that someone else will harm you, fear of losing something, fear of not being able to get what you want. There are many, many kinds of fear that create impurity in the thinking.

This fear thinking, or what I have called impure thinking, is a sure road to dissatisfaction with your creation, because the fear will be inherent in what you are creating, and it will haunt you. Trust me, this is what is happening in the world today. The fear is holding on to the creation, and eventually the fear destroys the creation, the manifestation.

I am going to teach you how to let go of the fear, and how to have pure thoughts. Then I am going to teach you how to nourish these pure thoughts with joy. The joy is the fertilizer to all of your creative endeavors. The joy also keeps your manifestation pure, so that no decay can enter.

Trust your Infinite Wholeness. Trusting your Infinite Wholeness is the challenge, because the old way of thinking, the old mind wants to control, because when you control, you feel safe. "I am in charge. I will control this and then I will make sure that I am safe." That is the thinking of the old way of life on Earth which has caused nothing but war, poverty, famine, illness, and environmental disaster.

The control has to be given up. Trust has to enter -- trust in the Infinite. I am not saying to trust in anything finite. I am saying to trust in the Infinite Wholeness, to trust in that thing that we are softening into all the time, to trust in that “Being”. That doesn't mean giving up control. It means trusting that there is a greater plan, though you may not know what it is. Not knowing what it is is what drives the small mind crazy, makes the small mind frantic. When the small mind is frantic, it starts to grab everything and try to control it, anything and everything, because control is the way the small mind overcomes fear.

You are not the small mind. You are Infinite and whole. You have to leave the small mind behind you. You have to retrain the small mind out of the grasp and control mode.

Overcoming our fears

Question:  Can you elaborate a bit more about overcoming our fears?

Divine Mother:   Fear is based on your doubt as to whether you can handle the things life gives you. Inwardly say, "I can handle anything life gives me.”

It is the fear that defeats you. It comes in on the doubt and grasps the opportunity to frighten you more. Doubt and fear are what defeat you. When you have some doubt, the fear builds on it.

All you have to be certain of is: I am Infinite and Whole. Nothing in creation can defeat that -- no fear, no doubt, no pain.

When you claim this Truth, you call forth the power of the universe; you call forth the Divine power in you and the Divine power can defeat anything in relative creation. Trust your Infinite Self. You are a Divine Infinite being in physical form. This is your only weapon against fear.

Inwardly say, "I am Infinite and Whole and I command you, fear, in the name of God, to go into the Light.” Be in the Wholeness of who you are, not in the limitation of who you are. Be your True Self.

The Truth is that you are Whole. The untruth is that you are finite and limited. For a long time, you have believed the untruth and operated as if you are finite and limited. You have run when fear approaches. Trust. Inwardly say, “I am no longer going to consider running.” You are who you are -- Infinite and Whole -- and now all of the running has to stop. All of the running has to stop everywhere throughout your life. You have to stop running. You have to be who you are.

Let the attention go to the heart. The heart gives you courage to be your Self. The heart gives you Infinite courage to be who you are, to dissolve fear. The heart is not afraid. The heart is your ally. When you do something courageous, you are always moved by your heart. When you stand up for someone, you are standing up from your heart. When you stop someone from harming someone else, you are stopping them from your heart.

Your heart is your power, your Infinite power. Trusting your Infinite Self is allowing your heart to be itself. Here, you unite with God. Here in the heart, you unite with God and the power of the universe is yours, the strength, the courage, the clarity, the ability to do anything.

Shutting down is running and hiding. It is the unconscious way you run and hide when something is confronting you that frightens you. It could be as simple as your significant other wanting to talk to you about something you are uncomfortable with. The deeper fear is making you feel like you are unworthy, a bad person, not enough. So you shut down. You don't want to go into that pain.

The truth is that you are not unworthy. You have to change your identity from the small, limited person to the Whole, Divine Being who can listen to what the spouse or the boss wants to say without being diminished.

The shutting down and tuning out is a habit that has been caused by our identification with who we are not. To change the habit of shutting down, we have to change how we identify ourselves. That is the fundamental antidote, the fundamental cure.

You are not separate. This is what I endeavor to demonstrate to you every time we meet, whether it is here or in your prayers at home or in a quick connection with me in your day. You are not separate. We are one. These belief systems are false. Nothing should be based on them because you are here to live the Truth of your Wholeness and Oneness. This is taking root inside. Don't worry about the outer. I care about the inner you deep inside. The outer world is irrelevant to that. The inner life is what I'm interested in and that's why I'm training you to stop shutting it off.

We are moving inside, building. You are changing. You are recognizing the Truth. You are living the Truth so many ways, constantly, consistently. This is just one more tune-up that you need to do. Tune yourself out of shutting down. Open up. Allow the flow. Break the structures that block the flow. Choose to be open. Being open means open to me. Open to me. If you are truly open to me, you can't shut down ever again. 

Coming home to Divine Mother

Divine Mother:   What we are doing is bringing you home, the fear is in the world, the safety is at home, Divine Mother's home. The fear is in the outside world, I am bringing you to the inside world, and when you live in the safety of the inside world, the outside world cannot disturb you. The outside world may not just be your friends, your activities, your family, your experiences, it can also be your thoughts, your emotions, your memories. These are parts of the outside world, outside of you, your real self, and your true self, whom you may have abandoned a long time ago.

That abandoned self is waiting for you, waiting in the home of Divine Mother with Divine Mother, waiting to give you everything, waiting to love you infinitely, to comfort you infinitely, to create with you, waiting to unite with you. You are not a small being, not an emotion, a thought, you are not an object, you are not your job, you are not a friend, a wife, a husband, a child. Trust who you really are, trust the you that is already living in the home of Divine Mother.

Coming home to Divine Mother means coming home to yourself, who is unafraid, who is constant, free, the you who you have forgotten, abandoned, and run into the world of pain and suffering and fear, and left behind. Come home.

You can find a million things in the world to upset you, you can create things to disturb and upset you, you can remember things, you can find an old buried emotion, it’s all there, a million things to disturb you, one thing to give you peace. Do that one thing again and again. Until the peace is so strongly established, a million armies, and a million defeats, and a million betrayals and a million losses can never disturb your peace. One thing, one thing that can give you victory over pain, one thing.

I am Divine Mother I come in the name of love, I want to tell you something. It’s hard to find your way home from the field of attachment, it’s hard, it takes tremendous persistence. Persistence is all I am asking of you, come home again and again, never give up, persist. Love truth enough, to find your way through the lies that the world tells you. Love truth enough, so that you can know when the world is telling you a lie. Love truth enough not to accept betrayal, not to accept pain, not to accept illusion. This is what you are up against, as you move from the material world of the five senses, the mind, the intellect, the ego, into the home of Divine Mother. 

You are healing, you are healing a whole series of life times on this material plane that has taught you to give importance to the illusion, so as you remember to come home, as you change the direction of what you value, from outer to inner, the outer is going to kick and scream a bit, we don’t mind, we just stay with our inner, we just keep doing the one thing that is going to give us comfort freedom and peace. We come in, we go inward, we go into the home of Divine Mother. 

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The Power of Your Attention

Divine Mother:  Your attention is your most powerful gift for creating. The attention is what allows you to soften, to hold, and to allow. The attention is what you observe subtle energy with. The attention is like your pointer finger that points your awareness. We will actually call it the magic wand. You touch something with a magic wand and it changes. You touch something with your attention and it changes. This is an important point for you to understand and embrace. If you touch something with your attention on the failures of it, you create failures. If you touch something with your attention on the beauty of it, the joy and skill and harmony of it, that is what you create.

You have a magic wand and it is your attention. It is important that you use your attention creatively. The attention observes the softening, the holding, and the allowing. The attention which is your magic wand observes these three important creative tools. By observing these three, they become powerful.

When you observe energy, it changes.

I want to make this point again. Energy is flowing everywhere. When you observe it, it changes. When you observe it with intention, you create that intention. I have told you today how to work with awareness to create goodness in your life and in the life of Mother Earth. I have demonstrated through each of you what that is. Now I want you to know how important your attention is. It is your magic wand. It changes everything.

So use your attention wisely. You want certain things in your life. Don't attend the things you don't want, because your attention creates them. Attend what you want only. Trust your Infinite Self.

Creating the stairway to God

Question:  What do you do in a situation when you are stuck in anger or in depression? How do you get unstuck?

Divine Mother:  Ask for help first. Ask me or another Divine Being for help. When you ask us for help our energy starts fluctuating in your system. You can even see it if you look. The energy that you are observing can be observed as Jesus or Archangel Michael or Mother Mary. When you say “Jesus, help me”, suddenly Jesus appears. You may not see Jesus physically, but in the energy, Jesus will be there to help you. So the first step is to ask for help.

The second step is to find the help. Sometimes you can't find the help because of the blockage and the stuckness and the depression. You must search for it. If you were stuck at the bottom of a well, you would be trying to get out. You would be climbing the walls, you would be trying to build steps, you would be doing something to save yourself. In fact, you should be doing something to save yourself. There are those who don't do anything to save themselves. You would be calling out for help. You would be calling, “God, help me. Jesus, help me.” Then down at the bottom of the well (we are thinking of a dry well), you would be trying to get out. You would find sticks or rocks to throw up at the top to get someone’s attention, or you would be trying to dig into the sides and make steps.

You are in this life to accomplish many things. One of those things is to deal with the issues that make you feel stuck, dealing with the issues that make you feel helpless or hopeless. Don’t remain in the helplessness or hopelessness.

You are here to break through that. So you ask for help and you start doing things to get out of the hole. Being a human doesn't mean that everything is going to be given to you on a silver platter. You have to build your silver platter. You have to create your silver platter, and then everything will be good. But you are here to find and build that silver platter, that stairway to God. That connection to God is what you are building. Then everything works beautifully.

So don't give up. It's part of being human to create the stairway to God. Believe me, God is helping you create it. You may not see that at first and think you are alone and have to do it all yourself. Once you have it built, you realize, “Oh, I have never been alone. It was being built for me all along.” But without the will, you must come back again and again.

You are given situations in this life, whether it is poverty or illness or relationship problems, or how to manage wealth. You are given situations of your choosing, I emphasize of your choosing, so that you can learn something about God, learn something about your relationship with God. Never give up. The life force is flowing through you powerfully, use it. Trust it. Say, “God, come here. Where are you? I don't know where you are. I’m going to find you. Get me out of here.” Then start building the stairway, the connection. Start fashioning your silver platter. When you take one step toward God, God takes ten thousand steps toward you. But, you are a being of free will. You must choose. The choice is yours. That’s the human uniqueness. Please don't quit.

The Divine Power of Gratitude

Divine Mother:   Gratitude of any kind --- to nature, to your friend, to your computer, to God, to your car --- if it is sincere, creates a wave of light on the subtlest level which moves the universe. You are putting yourself in the driver’s seat of the universe by creating such a potent wave of light that the flow of life force is activated. It is receiving its impetus from you. This is the Divine Power of gratitude.

Gratitude doesn’t always have to be expressed in a word like thank you. It is most often expressed in a being-ness that creates the deeper surrender in you. Gratitude allows surrender to something greater than you. Whatever you are doing, if you are resenting it, your heart is dry. When you shift into gratitude, your heart becomes ripe with the juice of love, which is conducting the entire creation.

Often an expression of gratitude will leave the other person feeling inadequate to respond. This is good. They have just had to let go of all of their mental posturing and are just experiencing their infinite self, their pure being. When someone is grateful to you and you don’t know how to respond, be silent, the right response will come and perhaps there is no need of response because the gratitude isn’t really for you. You have been an agent of God and they are thanking God. So be silent and let God respond through you. God's response may be silence, a touch, a hug or a smile. If you are innocent in your receptivity God can move through you. This is an infinite power you are wielding and it is creating magic. Let it. Let it create. You don’t have to know how or what will happen. Just be in gratitude -- trusting, allowing, being. Life will respond to you differently when you live with gratitude. Be innocent.

Gratitude creates innocence. Sometimes you may notice that when you are grateful to someone, you take them by surprise. They didn’t know how much they were being used as an agent of Divine Love. You may feel innocent when you are experiencing gratitude. Even overwhelmed. This is the Divine, this is God. God is overwhelming. Let it be. Don’t resist. Stay innocent. Let go. Trust. The biggest thing about gratitude is trusting. Trusting that the gratitude is here, it doesn’t need anything. Kindness allows you to express it. Kindness in passing on the beauty that you have experienced. Passing it on, sharing it. Its very, very pure.

Don’t be afraid to express your gratitude. Express and let go -- there is no need to receive anything in response. You have already received. Let someone else receive. Live in gratitude. If you can live in gratitude, your heart will be free. Practice gratitude and you will be teaching your heart how to stay out of the cage. Gratitude is a gift. A gift to you when you are feeling it that you are moved to share with another. And even if that other is nature, a dog, a machine, or God -- the effect will be noticed. Because what you are dong is moving light. On the subtlest level of life you are moving light to create with the most beautiful pure perfect intention. And that movement will create miracles that you may never know about. But it doesn’t matter. This is the power of gratitude.

Your country has a holiday dedicated to the expression of gratitude. This is a statement of the intention of the country to honor thankfulness. Respect that. It is a great thing. Trust me. If everyone in the country can experience sincere gratitude and express it on Thanksgiving Day the energy will change the course of the country’s destiny for the better. This is the power of sincere gratitude.

Thank you. Now I am expressing my gratitude. Feel it. I am sincerely grateful to you for receiving me. Just receive my gratitude, soften and open your heart. You are my hope for this planet.

Good karma or bad karma?

Question:  You said once that all karma is good karma. Can you explain what you meant by this?

Divine Mother:  Every action moves energy throughout the entire creation like a ripple on a pond. You put your finger in a pond which causes a ripple which moves throughout the entire pond. The ripple has an influence on the pond. It changes the pond. That is how your actions are -- they cause ripples that go through the whole creation and change the creation. The ripples also change you by flowing into you, through you, and around you, and you grow, expand, and learn about the creation and your influence on it.

You are like children playing in a wading pool, splashing the water to learn what water does. In this wading pool of creation, you are splashing your actions to learn what action does, and you learn because the waves that your actions create affect you, and you have preferences as to how you would like to have them affect you. If you would prefer a different effect, then you change your action. If you don't like the water to splashing you in the face, you stop splashing that way.

So it is action and reaction, action and reaction, and you move through relative life this way -- enjoying, learning, trusting that everything is fine, that everything is whole, and that your relative life is being constantly supported so that you can learn. Learning is the whole purpose for karma. It isn't about bad karma or good karma; it is about learning. So, all karma is good.

It is the mind that judges good or bad karma, and the mind is stupid. Yes, I would say stupid. Its judgments are made out of very shortsighted perceptions and imperfect information. Judgments are always imperfect. I am telling you this so you don't get caught anymore in the pain.

The worst judgments are the ones you make about yourself. They cause tremendous pain. Watch yourself even now to see if you are making judgments. Step out from under the umbrella of the mind, the thinking rational mind, and allow it to collapse. Learn a new way of experiencing Truth. Every thought you have must come from the experience of Truth (Oneness) if it is to be honest. Otherwise, you are building lie upon lie upon lie.

I love you. The world will try to pull you away from me. Love is our bond. You are seeking me, looking for love everywhere. You are seeking Me.

Don't become attached to what you love in the world; it will betray you eventually. I am here. Love the objects in the world without attachment and you will never be betrayed by them, for you are loving Me, always looking for Me, and I can be found. I can be embraced, known, united with.

Notice Me right now. You can notice me right now. Now notice Me every day. Plan on it. I am here. Catch yourself when you are making mistaken judgments and drop them. We are one. Receive Me. Now you will learn real trust.

Unworthiness as the core issue

Unworthiness is the core issue of everything. If anger is at the surface, and fear is under the anger, then beneath that fear is shame, and at the base is unworthiness. The root is the unworthiness based on the mistake that we are separate from God. This is what feeds all these negative emotions and action in our lives, all the pain and suffering. There are many and varied mental ramifications of this. The fundamental error is the belief in separation, which feeds the unworthiness.

You are not unworthy. You're not separate. This is not something you can mentally grasp. The mental acceptance is the first step, but it needs to become an experience, a vibrational flow of life force through every layer of your existence. This is why we work on the vibrational level rather than discuss the issues. We work 90% on correcting the vibrational inconsistencies here. This is an energetic realignment with Truth. When you are aligned with Truth, that is when you can live Truth, not just think about it or talk about it. When it becomes a living reality, that becomes the crown of life.

I Love you. I am you. I know this, and I am spending every life breath helping you to know this.