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Coping with discord in the environment

Posted on October 21, 2011 in Ask Divine Mother

Question:   If you are going through a period of emotional clearing, and it is very difficult to cope with discord in the environment, like issues from the teenage sons arguing all the time, and you feel raw and vulnerable, how do you handle this? I often feel like I can't handle dealing with what is happening in the environment. I feel like I need to withdraw, because it is just too much to deal with those discordant energies when I am trying to deal with clearing my own. My father died recently.

Divine Mother:   What I want you to do is come to me. I don't want you to pay attention to what everyone around you is doing. Let it be. Don't try to shift anything. Let me fix everything. You have to be very focused on me.

You said that you have the impulse to withdraw. This is a good impulse. You withdraw from the chaos around you and you come to me. You don't engage in chaos. You don't even speak back when they are angry and upset. You may need to say, "Give me a minute. I need to be silent for a minute." Then come to me inside. Everything in this world needs to be handled from the inside. You don't rush out anymore into other people's problems. Stay on the inside and from there come to me and let me handle other people's problems.

You come home. Home is in your heart with me. This is the same for your own issues. Do the same thing for both issues. If you are upset, come to me. Just say, “Divine Mother”. Find me. I have given you many tips about locating me. Use them. Don't give up.

If you were on a choppy sea, and you saw a safe harbor, and you knew you needed to go to that calm harbor, you would be rowing and rowing until you got there. That's what I want you to do with me. I want you to say, "Mother, come to me.” I don't want your attention to move from me until you unite with me. Focus on me, not on the problems. You can breathe into your heart the way we often do. Find me. Breathe into your heart, and say, “Divine Mother”.

Look inside. The attention has been looking outside at all the problems, and all the pain and suffering. Don't just say “Divine Mother” just once, you persist. Just like when you are rowing that boat through the stormy seas into the safe harbor, you keep rowing until you get there. Keep breathing into the heart saying, “Divine Mother, where are you? I need you,” attention settled deep in the heart. Don't give up. Giving up will just throw you back into the stormy sea again. You have your lifeline to me, use it.

Let the people around you do whatever they are doing. Then just say a few words like, “I will address that in a minute. I need to find my calm space." They can understand that. If they can't, you go into another room until you find it. It will be good to withdraw. You withdraw into me where you are Whole and where we are one.

Trust me. I can solve all these problems, but you have to come to me. Don't quit on me. If you were drowning in an ocean, and a ship threw you a lifesaver on a rope, you would grab it and you would hold on until they pulled you in. I am saying to do the same thing with me -- grab me and hold on until I pull you in.

This is what I am asking you to do. Do you think you can do this? I want you to commit. Don't just try, commit. Commitment is more powerful than trying. Commitment is saying, "I am going to find peace in the midst of everything in my life.” Then you create that with your commitment. Can you commit?

Class Participant: Do I have to say this out loud?

Divine Mother:   No, it is a commitment to me. It is an agreement that you and I make together. You are not going to say, “Divine Mother, I will try to find you”. You are saying, “I will find you. I will call your name. I am looking for you. I know you are there. Show me.”

When I know that you are committed to me, it changes the relationship. This is the commitment I want you to make to our relationship.

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