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How to change something you are not happy with

Posted on March 24, 2012 in Ask Divine Mother

Question:   Transcending through a situation where we want to be free of the limitation and we want to create what we want in that situation or something better… it seems obvious that transcending through it would create what is highest and best. Will that create what we want, or should we accept what is? I am hoping that anything is possible in terms of us transcending through it and bringing Almighty God to create really wonderful outcomes in every situation. I guess I just want a little more clarity on accepting what is versus the possibility of Heaven on Earth in a situation.

Divine Mother:   You have brought up several different points. The first one is -- when you are, as you say, accepting what is, what you are accepting is Wholeness. Accepting what is is Wholeness, Being, “isness”. Then whatever is happening is fine because you are not concerned with it. What you are accepting is what is. What is is Being. That is a slight shift in the understanding. By accepting what is, the Wholeness, the Being, the “isness”, whatever is going on doesn't bother you, because you are in the Wholeness. You are enjoying that. That is the most enjoyable experience always.

The next part of your question about changing something that you aren't completely satisfied with -- this occurs by consistent letting go through it. Say you are not happy with your relationship, any relationship. What you do is you start to soften through it, letting go through it. The interesting thing about letting go through it or softening through it is that every layer of the relationship is going to be affected by your softening. In other words, the Infinite is going to be awakened in every layer of the relationship. This is different than just having a mantra and transcending. Now you are transcending through a vibratory field, the field of the relationship

So it is like water going through sand. It goes through the sand a little more slowly than if the water were just poured through the air onto the ground. You are softening through all the layers of the relationship, and every layer is getting the benefit of Wholeness, or the awakening of the Infinite. Then you soften into the depths of Wholeness, allowing a response. It is just like when you drop a pebble into the water and a wave is created. As you soften into the Wholeness, you are creating a wave and it flows back through your relationship, healing the relationship.

Now your next point -- the ripples flow back into the relationship under the guidance of Infinite Intelligence or Cosmic Intelligence. You are not directing the way it flows back; you simply soften through. It is just like when you drop a pebble, you have nothing to do with the ripples that are created except that you caused them. When they move against the edges of the pond and bounce back, you are not orchestrating that from the level of your intellect. That's where the Cosmic Intelligence comes in.

You really just have to trust that God knows more than you do, and that God loves you so much that He or She is not going to let you stay in suffering. That's what you have to trust. That's why trust is fundamental to creating what you want. If you don't trust, you don't give God freedom to give back to you. Maybe you are thinking, “I want it this way. God, I want you to do this.” You can say that at the beginning – “Mother, this is what I want. I want healing here.” Then you let go, letting go and softening, allowing.

You are dropping attention into Wholeness just like dropping the pebble and the ripple of God comes back under the guidance of Divine Intelligence. So you just let go and soften, and then you let go again. This is where human beings, especially the ones who have been trained to be strongly mental, must continue to let go again and again and trust.

So as I said, it could happen instantaneously, but if it doesn't, keep doing it. It just means you have something to learn. As you continue to let go and trust, you will learn, because the Divine Intelligence is your teacher, so you will be taught whatever it is you need to learn. You will learn wonderful things. You will learn Divine Knowledge.

You may be thinking, "Oh I am at the back of the class. I have been working on this for years. I must not be getting it." You are just being given a lot of Divine Knowledge. You're a student who has a lot of curiosity and wants to know every nuance about how the Divine is operating here, and then there, and then over there. This is all good.

Edison tried 1000 times before he created the electric light bulb. He did not feel that he had failed. He had just learned 1000 ways not to create a light bulb. Never is there a failure. You simply drop into the Infinite again and again. This is because you have a developed intellect that can understand subtle shifts and nuances, so don't criticize yourself. Be like Edison who had to try 1000 times before he got what he was looking for.

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This is a wonderfully rich piece that really speaks to my soul. I struggle with letting go and then grabbing it again. Letting go means that you trust GOD and the UNIVERSE to take it w/o grabbing hold of it and owning it. I let go, I realize that I am not a failure and I allow GOD to be in my life giving me perfect peace. HE/SHE wants to do it; it requires I allow it. Thank you Divine Mother for your pearls of rich wisdom and hope!
Cicely

– Cicely    March 24, 2012
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This is a wonderfully rich piece that really speaks to my soul. I struggle with letting go and then grabbing it again. Letting go means that you trust GOD and the UNIVERSE to take it w/o grabbing hold of it and owning it. I let go, I realize that I am not a failure and I allow GOD to be in my life giving me perfect peace. HE/SHE wants to do it; it requires I allow it. Thank you Divine Mother for your pearls of rich wisdom and hope!
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